Jeroen Wagemakers's Blog

Perms , curlers, salonvisits, haircapes …


This BLOG is about me a man with a strong passion for perms. I know there are more men like me, men that get sexually exited over having a perm done, or seeing it done.

It all started when I was a child, I can vividly remember that in late 70’s / early 80’s salons for woman looked much more appealing to me. So many nice colors in the salon, and those capes with those nice patterns, rows of dryers and many woman in rollers or permrods, oh boy did I wanteed to know how that feels. But what then? Have real curls on me? Won’t I look “silly” , wont people  think about me differently?

During my teenage years and puberty I started to do somekind of home-salon-play, using hairrollers we had at home. Later I even bought permrods and a saloncape. This playing around was a lot of fun to me , but ofcoarse not real. The dream of being permed for real wasn’t fullfilled untill 2006. I loved that time in the salonchair so much and curls on me seem to “work”,  since then I haven’t looked back, I still get my hair permed and I still love it all.

Over the years I have met with many nice people online that share similiar feelings as I have. I am glad that I used this blog to show the world that if you want something you have to go for it, I hope this encourages others to do the same.

If you want to help, have an idea or… then please contact me per Email on my Emailadres: ( no messenger ! ) , ask me for details for how to chat , webcam is mandatory to be able to chat with me.



  1. Hi, you mention (and show pics) of the actress with a perm in the UK TV show, but in the picture with the group of actors there is also one of the actor, Dean Andrews, who sports a perm for the film. If you go in his webpage you can see him in flexible perm rods too.

    Comment by Med | 20 September 2009 | Reply

  2. Thanks for the comment.

    “..Dean Andrews, who sports a perm for the film. If you go in his webpage you can see him in flexible perm rods too. … ”

    Do you have a direct url to that photo? or a hint where I must look for it?

    Comment by jwagemakers | 20 September 2009 | Reply

  3. Hi Jeroen

    Thumbs up for this blog/site!
    I think it’s great that you openly show your hairfetish to the world. You are courageous.
    There are loads and loads of hairfetishists out there – they are just hiding. It took me years searching the web, to realize that it is really so..
    I am myself a hairfetishist, liking especially headshaves, extreme style cuts and perms… and of course the whole ‘Salon Experience’ 🙂

    I have a channel/user-page on youtube called ‘akvavitten’ – check it out if u are curious. I have a lot of nice hairvideos in my favourites section.


    Comment by akvavitten | 31 October 2009 | Reply

  4. Thanks for your kind words.

    I know most are hiding… even trying to fool you into thinking they are females, whih offcourse is just part of a fantasy.

    I tried looking up your youtube, but can’t find it. 😦

    So you like perms aswell, most people with hairfetish like just one thing.. for me it’s all about perms.

    My blog is so “open” to show others is not that “strange” to have these feelings, just enjoy them without hurting others.. so I will never play a “woman” on the net like many others do.

    Comment by jwagemakers | 31 October 2009 | Reply

  5. Hmm.. you should be able to see my youtube profile here:

    I guess u are right that men are the dominant species in the fetish world – and one should always be very careful with all internet contacts and communication.

    Will u be making any videos (feat. you!) with Kat Surth?

    Comment by akvavitten | 1 November 2009 | Reply

  6. I looked at your youtube now, a lot of people seem to follow it, those shaving to bald is not my ” thing ” … but some many people so many fetish-things for hair.

    “Will u be making any videos (feat. you!) with Kat Surth?”

    Well yes a video is planned, but it will not only feature me, but Kat as well, us both side-by-side getting perms.

    Comment by jwagemakers | 2 November 2009 | Reply

  7. Love your site, like you I have a thing about perms. I’ve never had one myself and have no real desire to either, but I am facinated with women getting one. I have a very understanding wife who has had many perms over the time we have been together, most of which I have seen being done. She tells me she gets aroused whilst having one, but more probably because she knows how I feel about seeing a woman with a head full of rods.
    Would like to converse more about his topic.
    Cheers David Claire

    Comment by perm lover | 13 November 2009 | Reply

    • Thanks for your nice words.

      “Would like to converse more about his topic.”

      Me too, I tried emailing you but got an error.

      Comment by jwagemakers | 13 November 2009 | Reply

  8. Hi Jeroen,
    Sorry got e-mail adress wrong, have a go with the one above.



    Comment by perm lover | 13 November 2009 | Reply

    • Yes, thanks.

      Comment by jwagemakers | 14 November 2009 | Reply


    picture 20


    Comment by kimmed | 14 November 2009 | Reply

    • Thanks, I allready found it myself some time ago. but “booo” it’s not a perm, just a set on “hot”-rods.

      Comment by jwagemakers | 14 November 2009 | Reply

  10. would love to chat about perms

    Comment by Jason | 17 July 2010 | Reply

    • Do you just love perms done on others? or get them done too?

      For a chatI use yahoo-messenger, I also love it when a webcam works with that.

      Comment by jwagemakers | 24 July 2010 | Reply

  11. Hi Jeroen
    I have the exact same “hobby” as you do and have to commend you for being so public about, that’s one thing I could never do. I’ve been perming for 30+ years and have tried pretty much all types of roll ups. Email me if you would like to discuss anything you want.
    Cheers Steve

    Comment by steve | 3 January 2011 | Reply

  12. I also have a perm fetish in the last 2 years I cut all my hair off because at the time I felt like I no longer had the desire to perm my hair. Now I have a overwhelming desire to perm my hair again. I have been trying to find a hair perm solution that matches my fetish, and I am coming up empty handed. It has to have a strong smell and process under a dryer. I am not finding many on the internet any help would be great!

    Comment by Ryan | 11 January 2012 | Reply

  13. absolutely awesome!!!

    Comment by amylynne | 1 April 2012 | Reply

    • Thanks

      Comment by jwagemakers | 24 August 2012 | Reply

  14. This is a wonderful Blog, and ver insightful.

    Comment by Charlene | 22 August 2012 | Reply

    • Thanks, you like haircurlers / perms too?

      Comment by jwagemakers | 24 August 2012 | Reply

  15. As so many of us as long as I can remember I was a fan of hair pampering. For so may years i thought i was a bit (or more than a bit) weird being the only one boy i knew who wished to be set in rollers or netted or would be overjoied just at the thinking my aunts or better a girl frend would putt a hairpin in my hair .
    It is a long story and this is not the place to start ….. once upon the time ….
    At least I think that taking care of our partner’s hair (and to be pampered such a way too) is a nice way to espess our feelings and love . My group (most in italian language) is

    “bigodino per lui” means “a curler for him”

    You can find some hair pampering story (even in english language or french) photos links and more.

    Bye Bye


    Comment by Maurizio | 29 August 2012 | Reply

  16. Meine 1. Dauerwelle (Roland)
    Meine 1. Dauerwelle habe ich bekommen, weil 1 Kumpel eines Tages mit einem Lockenkopf (kleine Locken) angekommen ist. Die Frisur war toll, es war – gerade bei den kleinen Locken, sehr pflegeleicht. Mein Kumpel überzeugte mich, es doch auch mal auszuprobieren. Nach 3 Monaten gingen wir zusammen zum Friseur, in einem Herrensalon ( 5 Plätze) wurden wir schon erwartet. Die Neugierde war groß und nach 4 Stunden waren meine Locken dann auch da . Ich bin sehr begeistert gewesen von der Frisur und ich bin es auch heute noch. Ich finde es Schade, wenn heute nur wenige Männer sich offen zu ihrer Dauerwelle bekennen. Ich glaube gerade diese Frisur zeichnet sich von den anderen ab (keine Einheitsfrisur). Die Männer sollten auch ruhig den Mut haben für die Dauerwelle zu werben und nachfragen im Salon nach Dauerwelle. Wir Männer sind Kunden und wir haben das Geld! Ja und warum nicht auch einmal mit seinem Kumpel gemeinsam zur Dauerwelle in den Salon gehen. Ist doch eine tolle Sache ! Wir Männer mit Dauerwelle sollten viel intensiver den Kontaktaustausch pflegen!

    Comment by Roland | 29 May 2016 | Reply

  17. Hello Jeroen,

    Your site has been an inspiration to me for years, I wanted to tell you I finally got up the courage and booked My first perm yesterday. My hairstylist is very supportive and excited about it. She just put in some foil highlights, so we have to wait about 2 weeks for the perm. My hair is long and we are going to do a curly spiral. I can’t wait.

    Comment by Mdc6550 | 31 March 2017 | Reply

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